Freeing oneself could be letting go, shifting from caretaking to caregiving, from empathy to sympathy. most importantly we can only give what we have, so self love is essential.
compulsive giving could be coming from the fear of abandonment.
"We're all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love." — Robert Fulghum
“Without dignity, identity is erased. In its absence, men are defined not by themselves, but by their captors and the circumstances in which they are forced to live.” ― Laura Hillenbrand, Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience and Redemption
Jorhat1964 Wondering, what new I would have to add, after all the people you have been reading. Well not much. I did my engineering and got married before I could find a job. The first flush of excitement, HI visa, I went with my husband, and by the time the green card came, Keshav was …
Time For Introspection.
Each cup of tea represents an imaginary Voyage.