letting life unfold

Tarot cards, astrologers, Iching, they all seem to rule our decisions. Sometimes, events are performed to achieve an end.
The stress of the unknown, the desperate to succeed in a socially acceptable format, all these are stresses.
Maybe allowing our life unfold like a flower rather than worrying and making predications which cause stress would be more fruitful.
Our lives are guided by natural rhythms that are particular to each one us and cannot be altered by force of will alone. Life itself is a journey made up processes and events that manifest before us only to be swept away when time marches on. Whether we envision ourselves creating a career building a family or developing the self, we instinctively know when the time has come for us to realize our dreams because all that is involved comes together harmoniously. When the time is right the passage of destiny cannot be blocked. Yet as desperate as were are to touch these beautiful future we have imagined we cannot grow if we are not fully present in evolutionary experience. The present can be challenging uncomfortable, and tedious but life unfolds as it will and the universe will wait patiently as we make our way into the unknown.
The fate that awaits us not dependent on our pace which is was preordained before we ever appeared in human guise. Therefore there is no reason to rush through life to reach those pinnacles of development associated with with the paths we have chosen. Enjoying and fully experiencing the journey of life is as important as achieving goals and reaching milestones. There are lessons we can learn during those moments that seem immaterial or insignificant that we cannot learn at any other time appreciating these takes patience how ever because human beings tend to focus on fulfillment of expectations rather than the simple joys of being.
Many of us have longed for a device that would give the power of fast forward through some periods of our lives. Yet haste is by its very nature vastly more stressful than serene fortitude. When you feel yourself growing impatient because your pace of development is deceptively slow remember everything that will occur in your life will occur at its own time. Quelling your urge rush will enable you to witness yourself learning, changing and becoming stronger. There is so much to see and do in between the events and processes that we deem definitive. If we are patient enough to take pleasure in our existence unfolding the journey from one pinnacle to the next will seem to take no time at all.