Transform Your Life.
Transformation is the genesis of a new realm of possibility. Think about it—most of the time, we operate in survival mode, with all our responses triggered by the need to survive. But transformation comes from a different place—a space called NOTHING.
The fundamental state of human existence is to be creative and happy. We are whole and perfect, but the barriers we face often prevent us from experiencing this. The space of nothing helps us handle inauthenticity without bias. Bias is the meaning we’ve created, and there’s a need to drop that.
One of the most important aspects of communication is listening and focusing on intention. Being in integrity means honoring our word as we honor ourselves. It doesn’t mean there’s no breakdown, but if a breakdown in integrity invalidates us, it limits us. Integrity is an ongoing process; it can increase or decrease, but if we stick to it, it becomes our personal law or value.
When our word isn’t honored, there’s usually a lack of responsibility—the willingness to be the cause in the matter. Responsibility is a stand we take, not just a statement we make. Integrity equals responsibility plus generosity. Let’s face it, we are responsible for how people occur in our lives.
Forgiveness begins with true listening. Our default listening mode involves our own speaking and the occurrence of the speaker in our place. But when we listen just to listen, there’s a shift. When we stand in nothing, things fall into integrity. In nothing, anything is possible.
Speaking arises from listening. Listening gives silence space for communication. It’s not a judgment from the past. Conversations naturally go to nothing unless someone holds onto them. There’s often an unwillingness to acknowledge the world of acknowledgment when in integrity, which is scarce.
Underlying all communication is an unvoiced question, often persistent and significant: “Am I lovable?” and an even more important, unanswered question: “Who am I?” In nothing, we experience:
- Not being dictated by others’ reactions.
- Reactions not being dictated by society—those are personal.
To identify the background question, notice how it keeps coming up.
Practise:
- Giving up: This doesn’t mean sacrifice; it’s about dropping the meanings and filters attached.
- Forgiveness
- Acceptance of just what is
- Dancing in the conversation
- Bringing everything to nothing
- Acknowledgement

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