Pitoori Amavasya


Pitoori Amavasya falls on Friday, August 22, 2025, with the Amavasya tithi opening at approximately 11:55 AM and closing the next morning around 11:35 AM, creating a potent window for ancestral healing, karmic release, ritual weaving, and soul mapping. In the cosmic field of Bhadrapada’s waning moon, it is a live portal: past and future converge here, weaving ancestral grace through present intention.

In my ancestral and karmic healing work, this is much more than a ritual date—it is a womb-like opening in time, where the Mother’s dark field becomes a vessel for transformation. The ancestors are not distant echoes, but living threads of Devi, our Source. She births, sustains, and reabsorbs them into her timeless womb. On this night, she appears as Kali, severing bondage; Dhumavati, holding lineage sorrow; and Durga, nurturing the family stream as Kuladevi. In that velvet dark, lineage becomes light.

There is a powerful folk narrative that deepens this offering’s resonance. In one telling, a mother loses her seven children year after year despite her sacred vows. In her grief, she hides the last child’s body. The village’s guardian goddess, Poleramma (a regional form of Durga or Devi), visits in compassion, instructing the mother to sprinkle turmeric on the sites of the children’s cremations. When she does, her children are restored to life. From that day, families observed Pithori Amavasya—or Polala Amavasya in southern regions—as a vow for children’s wellbeing and lineage restoration. This transformative story underscores the Mother’s power to breathe life into grief, into lineage, into loss. (Webdunia Hindi, Ajabgjab)

Some traditions also narrate that Goddess Parvati conveyed the importance of this vrata to Indra’s wife, promising that observance blesses families with strong, wise children and prosperity. Women then began to craft flour idols—“pith” images—of Durga and the 64 Yoginis, vesting household lineage with the power of divine protection and cosmic balance. (Hindu Blog, ABP News, https://www.oneindia.com/)

These stories remind us that ancestral healing is not sorrowful, but radiant: grief transformed by the Mother’s compassion becomes blessing, lineage, and life.

In the tapestry of ancestral healing, karmic release, ritual building, and soul mapping—Pitoori Amavasya is a day and night of deep alchemy:

  • Ancestral healing becomes reclamation of our lineage as living story, not broken fragments lost in time.
  • Karmic reconciliation turns inherited wounds into insights—knots cut by Kali, sorrow held by Dhumavati, protection woven in Durga.
  • Ritual building becomes mapping soul longings: each offering, chant, symbolic gesture a coordinate on the lineage’s return path.
  • Soul mapping becomes tracing how ancestral patterns live in us—where they echo in our body, heart, purpose arc.

Here is how you might root this alchemy into practice during the August 22 portal:

  1. Light the womb-lamp as the tithi opens around 11:55 AM—this flame is lineage, devotion, and opening in light.
  2. Offer pith creations: flour idols representing Durga and the 64 Yoginis, honoring the cosmic protectors of lineage, especially mothers and children.
  3. Offer sesame, rice, or food to the Mother through your lineage prayer: “Mother, receive these in your womb. Hold my forebears. Release their hunger. Return their peace as blessing.”
  4. Chant Devi mantras such as Om Krim Kalikayai Namah or Om Aim Hreem Kleem Chamundaye Vichche—allow the vibrations to ripple backward into ancestors and forward into descendants.
  5. Act of nourishment outward—feed children, the vulnerable, birds—in Devi’s name, weaving the healing into living world.
  6. Write names of ancestors or simple “all known and unknown ancestors”, place at Devi’s feet—surrender your lineage into the field of divine return.

These are not ritual obligations—they are maps: each gesture a path through which ancestral and karmic healing flows home.

In that dark, the Mother digests lineage sorrow. Through her darkness, clarity is born. The healing of ancestors becomes ours; their peace becomes our ground. This is not appeasement, but transcendence: remembering that in Devi’s womb, all exists and is reformed—lineages, stories, times converge.

This Pitoori Amavasya, I offer this as an invitation: a portal not just marked on a calendar, but alive in ritual intention. If you feel called to explore ancestral healing, karmic reconciliation, ritual crafting, or soul mapping—especially through this Shakta portal—let us meet in that dark. Let us weave lineages home, and find in the Mother’s embrace that all stories, all times, all beings come to completion.

Because in her womb-night, all lineage finds peace. And in her embrace, we become whole.


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2 responses to “Pitoori Amavasya”

  1. Pradeep Avatar
    Pradeep

    In Kerala, this day was last month, on July 24. Throughout the state in various places, and by the side of waterbodies, arrangements are made for people to pay respects to their ancestors. Now, even outside Kerala, in many places, where there are many people from Kerala, on this particular day, similar arrangements are done every year. Usually, we do it in Bengaluru, where we live. But this time, since we were in Ernakulam, we did this ritual at a nearby temple.
    (My latest post: Real-world lessons from younger folks)

    1. parwatisingari Avatar

      lovely.BTW I will be in Ernakulum next month

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