Who am I in this relationship?
Who am I in this conversation?
Suraj from Landmark graduates goa invited me on call this is what got from it.
The reaction time to any statement is very quick. We tend to react make the other person wrong, sometimes dominate. Being aware in a conversation as to who we are in the conversation will bring nothingness into the conversation,
We ‘are reluctant to give some one place in our space thereby we get isolated. In a breakdown it would be a good idea to question what is missing in the conversation that does not allow you participate in that relation the way it is meant to be.
This though initially difficult definitely becomes natural along the way.
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Very true.