I was reading this article commandments to 21st century father-in-law from a 21st century daughter-in-law. I hope I have brought my daughters up with more humane value. Fortunately my daughters have their relationship goal given by sister-in-law and my mother. Yes patriarchy can be suffocating. A lot depends on why do we get married. When …
Hera can you hear?
World marriage day And Hera is goddess of marriage and family. The second Sunday of the month of February is significant in the catholic calendar as it is the day world marriage day, before you conclude like I did, that is it is the day that the world gets married, well it is meant to …
Pride March…?
Will I accept if one day my child announces that he or she is gay...? I probably belong to Methuselah’s generation but I am a little confused about what the stink is about, after all relationships are personal and that’s way they should stay. First and foremost where do I come into the picture? The …
random thoughts on dharma
Dharmasya charnam shreyah Dharmajnam tu dushkrama. The good and righteous follow the dharma but it is difficult to know what the dharma is. The keeper of dharma tend to become self righteous such men are known as dharmadwaja these people on the face of it are vociferous keepers of dharma but their rigidity gives rise …
Man Woman and Mundane.
http://www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange. i have written of the mundane setting a rot into the marriage, immaterial of whether it is love or arranged, but a more important question that arises, particularly in a traditional parental supervised marriage is the presence or entrance of the other woman. But I wonder if the more pertinent reaction would be …
Shop-A-Spouse
Love marriage vs. Arranged marriage. My friends daughter has completed graduation, and on the last lap of her postgraduate. The traditional question of find a match for her come up. “Let her take her own risk” was my friends attitude, but the girl said “Ma and Pa please find someone for me.” After that despite …