Tag: anger

  • The Big Bully.

    The Big Bully.

    #TataZicaMarathon,#Impact The word Bully has diverse meaning like a blustering browbeating person especially someone who is habitually cruel to others particularly some weak. It could also mean a hired ruffian. Interestingly the word began meaning as brother, friend, sweetheart. Bullying can be a simple one on one to more complexes, with a bully having one…

  • sweetening a sour apple

    sweetening a sour apple There was this time, when I used to crib that I do good to people but why does it boomerang on me?  Then my husband’s guru explained to me, that there would be that negative energy that has to be addressed, if it is not it will move into anyone in the…

  • Letting Anger Flow:

    Letting Anger Flow: “I am awfully greedy; I want everything from life. I want to be a woman and to be a man, to have many friends and to have loneliness, to work much and write good books, to travel and enjoy myself, to be selfish and to be unselfish… You see, it is difficult…

  • The Way Of the Warrior

    The Warrior Spirit. Compassionate intensity, the way of the warrior. Even in times of trauma, we try to maintain a sense of normality until we no longer can. That, my friends, is called surviving. Not healing. We never become whole again … we are survivors. If you are here today… you are a survivor. But…

  • Sharing grief, opening to receive comfort

    From childhood, keeping a stiff upperlip, not crying in public was taught to us. so much so we confused empathy with pity. The time I lost my father, the time I was recovering from my burns, these were moments that caused me feel shock and sadness, the first thing I did was to withdraw from…

  • Revenge Getting Even—a different approach to anger.

    In the Prince of Thorns  Mark Lawrence writes “Tell me, tutor” I said.”Is revenge a science or an art?” Well ever wondered what it is? Actually I have. like moments of kneading the dough always seems to find events that elicit revenge. Pounding the dough somehow seem to release the anger. There are times when…